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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 30th, 2008, 5:47 pm 
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no offence, but how the heck does my typing skills show my maturity? )

Younger people tend to have poorer typing skills.

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PostPosted: August 31st, 2008, 5:24 am 
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So basically I have this friend who has a abusive family and people who don't see her potential and just use vulgar insults at her, I tried to help, but I don't know exactly how to cheer her up.
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no offence, but how the heck does my typing skills show my maturity? )

Younger people tend to have poorer typing skills.


but i'v already told u how old i am. (11)

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 31st, 2008, 7:06 am 
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So basically I have this friend who has a abusive family and people who don't see her potential and just use vulgar insults at her, I tried to help, but I don't know exactly how to cheer her up.
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make her some presents. always worked 4 me. and if her parents are phisicly/oraly abusive, u should call the police. also, maybe u could try to get her away from home more, like, ask her to go to a football game with u or w/e.
but the main thing is, if the parents ar abusive, call 911. dont know the number to 911? try 911.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: September 1st, 2008, 12:30 pm 
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Rory wrote:
So basically I have this friend who has a abusive family and people who don't see her potential and just use vulgar insults at her, I tried to help, but I don't know exactly how to cheer her up.
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Like her for her. Stick around and make sure she knows you're there.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: September 1st, 2008, 6:34 pm 
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well i am not normally one to ask for girl help :oops:

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so how would i know if a girl likes me? i've only had one girlfriend in my life (im 17 btw) and i asked her out because i knew for a fact she was into me...

so theres this girl im friends with now and she seems to kind of like me but i dont want to be rejected and then it will be weird being friends with her, how can i find out if she digs me?


If your friends with her... then you might be friends with her friends (or her friends boyfriends)... and can try to find out?

Don't be scared of rejection. If you really like her, you should tell her. Yeah, you'll get rejected sometimes (everyone does). I know your already friend with her so it'll be awkward if you get rejected... but I'd still tell her. You can try to hint at it for a while, but you might just have to flat out ask her out/tell her.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: September 5th, 2008, 9:13 pm 
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Final Enigma wrote:
well i am not normally one to ask for girl help :oops:

anyway

so how would i know if a girl likes me? i've only had one girlfriend in my life (im 17 btw) and i asked her out because i knew for a fact she was into me...

so theres this girl im friends with now and she seems to kind of like me but i dont want to be rejected and then it will be weird being friends with her, how can i find out if she digs me?


If your friends with her... then you might be friends with her friends (or her friends boyfriends)... and can try to find out?

Don't be scared of rejection. If you really like her, you should tell her. Yeah, you'll get rejected sometimes (everyone does). I know your already friend with her so it'll be awkward if you get rejected... but I'd still tell her. You can try to hint at it for a while, but you might just have to flat out ask her out/tell her.


i dunno man it just sounds risky and i wouldnt want to lose a friend anyway


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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: September 7th, 2008, 2:40 pm 
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i dunno man it just sounds risky and i wouldnt want to lose a friend anyway


You have to take risks sometimes in life. There's a billion expressions/quotes I could say here.... (i'll put some of my favorites lol)

"You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take"

Mark Twain:
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

Bobby Kennedy:
"Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly."

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“The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live.”

“He who risks and fails can be forgiven. He who never risks and never fails is a failure in his whole being.”


You get the point.

Now....you don't have to do this. You are the only one that really knows the situation fully. There's a difference between taking risks and life, and being stupid. Don't take every risk... be smart, do what you think is right.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: September 10th, 2008, 12:06 pm 
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Ex-troubles.

Right, i don't really care about what she thinks, but the one thing i do care about is her friends treating me like Fuzzy Bunny too. I agree that i told my mates to steer clear of her, but i never told them to treat her like a second class citizen. The thing i'm pretty worried about though is as much as i hate her, i would never really want o get into a row with hr, because getting into a row will involve me yelling pretty, personal, things out about our relationship. And i know they wouldn't wash well on her.

So, i've got 2 choices really. I confront her, tell her that i don't want to be treated like a second class citizen or let her friends treat me like that, or i just ignore it and hope it goes away.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: September 11th, 2008, 5:56 pm 
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This is less serious then other people, but I have a question. How do you shave? (Your face that is. kekekekekekeke)

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PostPosted: September 11th, 2008, 8:03 pm 
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This is less serious then other people, but I have a question. How do you shave? (Your face that is. kekekekekekeke)


http://www.wikihow.com/Shave-Your-Face Yes i googled, Yes i actually read whole thing.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: September 13th, 2008, 6:36 pm 
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Il keep this short and sweet.

I Drink Alcohol at the age of 17.

I take Anti-Depressants.

What are the risks of mixing the two, and should i stop?

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Il keep this short and sweet.

I Drink Alcohol at the age of 17.

I take Anti-Depressants.

What are the risks of mixing the two, and should i stop?


Stop drinking? I know easier said than done, and you've probably heard it a billion times before...

IDK about the risks.

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This is less serious then other people, but I have a question. How do you shave? (Your face that is. kekekekekekeke)


http://www.wikihow.com/Shave-Your-Face Yes i googled, Yes i actually read whole thing.


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5l1pkn07 wrote:
Il keep this short and sweet.

I Drink Alcohol at the age of 17.

I take Anti-Depressants.

What are the risks of mixing the two, and should i stop?

Medication and alcohol are not good when mixed. I would recommend stop doing one or the other, and I assume alcohol is the better choice. Taking an upper and a downer is not good.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
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Quick question about an ex

We broke up about a month ago after a year and a half. She got into a long-distance relationship right after, I started going to more parties and hooking up with various girls. A month later she comes by to get her stuff from my house, we hook up. Next day long distance bf and her break it up, she is like blah blah worst decision i ever made take me back blah blah. I say no we can be friends with benefits that's it. We had the benefits a few times, have been texting like when we were dating and getting close again. My question is, at this point what can I do at parties with other girls without pushing her completely away? In her mind are we together again? I mean I want her in my life but I also want freedom to hook up with other girls. Can I not have both of these things?


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Ok.. ill cut down my long story. 10 grade-became friends with a 9th grade girl. Talked alot... flirted a bit... maybe she likes me maybe she does... she has a bf... end of the year. 11th grade I start talking to her alot again about a month or two into school. We didnt talk as much as we did before... second semester I had another class with her. We start talking again and start getting closer. She had a boyfriend... breaks up with him... I think..well lets wait about a week or two because she just broke up. She gets another bf..... after like two months she walks into class and shes holding her stomach and says she hurts rly bad...she lifted up her shirt and had a ton of long scratches on her chest\stomach! I was like WTF???!?! Her boyfriend likes scratching....and she tells me hes like 22 (she wasnt like this before) She wanted to do her math work out in the hall...(sub that day) and I go with her and we talk and I say...blah blah something along the lines of its really bad that he gets off on doing that stuff...she says I know and shrugs it off... and I didnt know what else to say.. about a month later her boyfriend gets arrested... because shes only 16. She freaks out.. and runs away...-.-... shes caught a week later by the cops and She is out of school for another 3 weeks straight! She comes back and says she was forced into a home thing and is suddenly diagnosed with A.D.D and depression ... I was shocked and could barely respond to that. Ive never thought she seemed depressed and she gets really high grades..A+s...so A.D.D..... anyway Shes back and suddenly she doesnt want to talk really... she sits in class doing nothing...cuts class ect...about a two weeks later she barrows my cellphone and doesnt show up at the end of the day to give me back my phone? She is caught by the cops a week later.. she ran away... is out for another week or so and sees me in the library and apologizes.. she didnt realise she had the phone and explains why she ran away.... then she is back for a few days (june) then runs away again. Now she hasnt been back since then and its two weeks into school... her older sister whos in my grade ran away also... People are school have seen them both but they havent been back :\

I feel really bad that all of this happened. The more I think about how I reacted to the whole situation starting with her boyfriend... I feel like I should of done more... tried to convince her to end it... because it would end badly ect...I dunno I guess it was hard to think when she dropped bombs like that.... Do you guys think I should of done more?

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PostPosted: September 19th, 2008, 4:30 pm 
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Quick question about an ex

We broke up about a month ago after a year and a half. She got into a long-distance relationship right after, I started going to more parties and hooking up with various girls. A month later she comes by to get her stuff from my house, we hook up. Next day long distance bf and her break it up, she is like blah blah worst decision i ever made take me back blah blah. I say no we can be friends with benefits that's it. We had the benefits a few times, have been texting like when we were dating and getting close again. My question is, at this point what can I do at parties with other girls without pushing her completely away? In her mind are we together again? I mean I want her in my life but I also want freedom to hook up with other girls. Can I not have both of these things?

Sounds like a "having a cake and eating it too" situation.

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Ok.. ill cut down my long story. 10 grade-became friends with a 9th grade girl. Talked alot... flirted a bit... maybe she likes me maybe she does... she has a bf... end of the year. 11th grade I start talking to her alot again about a month or two into school. We didnt talk as much as we did before... second semester I had another class with her. We start talking again and start getting closer. She had a boyfriend... breaks up with him... I think..well lets wait about a week or two because she just broke up. She gets another bf..... after like two months she walks into class and shes holding her stomach and says she hurts rly bad...she lifted up her shirt and had a ton of long scratches on her chest\stomach! I was like Fuzzy Bunny???!?! Her boyfriend likes scratching....and she tells me hes like 22 (she wasnt like this before) She wanted to do her math work out in the hall...(sub that day) and I go with her and we talk and I say...blah blah something along the lines of its really bad that he gets off on doing that stuff...she says I know and shrugs it off... and I didnt know what else to say.. about a month later her boyfriend gets arrested... because shes only 16. She freaks out.. and runs away...-.-... shes caught a week later by the cops and She is out of school for another 3 weeks straight! She comes back and says she was forced into a home thing and is suddenly diagnosed with A.D.D and depression ... I was shocked and could barely respond to that. Ive never thought she seemed depressed and she gets really high grades..A+s...so A.D.D..... anyway Shes back and suddenly she doesnt want to talk really... she sits in class doing nothing...cuts class ect...about a two weeks later she barrows my cellphone and doesnt show up at the end of the day to give me back my phone? She is caught by the cops a week later.. she ran away... is out for another week or so and sees me in the library and apologizes.. she didnt realise she had the phone and explains why she ran away.... then she is back for a few days (june) then runs away again. Now she hasnt been back since then and its two weeks into school... her older sister whos in my grade ran away also... People are school have seen them both but they havent been back :\

I feel really bad that all of this happened. The more I think about how I reacted to the whole situation starting with her boyfriend... I feel like I should of done more... tried to convince her to end it... because it would end badly ect...I dunno I guess it was hard to think when she dropped bombs like that.... Do you guys think I should of done more?


Well you didnt really know she was going to run away, it was out of reach. We cant determine what a person is going to do, but once you saw those scratches, you should have told her parents, or someone with higher authority. Maybe she dropped out of school? Maybe she needs a real friend to talk to...Like you...Have you tried and come in contact with her lately? (I know you posted this Sept 16) Any updates? :\

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