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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: July 24th, 2008, 10:58 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
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PostPosted: July 25th, 2008, 9:16 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 7th, 2008, 7:46 am 
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ok, b4 i say my problem, a few little note, please.
1. please offer real advice, and dont just say, "oh, your way to young."
2. if your username is "taterman" turn away now, or i will have to kill you.....
3. great idea for a thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



ok, the problem:

ok, well first off, im an 11 year old homeschooler. so one day i was at my homeschool center/coverschool(a place where we can go to classes outside our own homes), and i was in a history class, along with almost all my friends.
this girl named sammy, (we r friends, thats it.) sat next 2 me. i started drawing instead of listining, (lol) i wrote "this is bob, bob likes you, bob also likes sharp things, i suggest u run from bob." u may have seen my sig with that b4. i showed it to sammy, (shes a very good artist) and she asked/wrote,"do u like me?" (lol) in a state of shock, (never been in a situation like this b4) i crossed it out with my pen, hoping she would just laugh....that god she did. but then, as with all schools, sammy told my sorta other friend makayla( or however u spell it) who told my other friend jackie. (the one i have liked 4 a while.) and so we where on runescape later that evening( lol) and we finally told each other. so basicly we've really liked each other for 3-4 months now. the problem: how do we tell our parents?!?!? mine, or hers dont even know! they r really suspicious but really have no idea. btw, jackies brother is my best bud.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 7th, 2008, 1:01 pm 
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Since you don't want to hear it from me or anyone here, tell your parents everything you just told us, and they will tell you that you're too young. Give it several years when you and your classmates have matured.

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PostPosted: August 7th, 2008, 4:06 pm 
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oh good lord....another "your to young responce".... :x
i just dont understand why everyone thinks you cant just like somone at a young age. i mean, c'mon! its not like we are going to make-out or anything! :shock: (i mean, duh, lol.) i think we can like each other, and i think our parents (and everyone that says "your to young")should accept that. :D my parents accually in a way said i could start "dating" whenever. when i say dating i dont literally mean it, i mean more of a liking each other, maybe some movies, etc.

EDIT: sorry i didnt want to sound harsh or anything, but that was my point. but thank you for the first part, with some acuall advice in it. :)

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 7th, 2008, 10:05 pm 
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Why not just be friends? Girls are a lot different than boys and can be fun to hang around with. I would tell your mom and dad, just say, "I like Sammy, you know." They won't freak out or anything. Maybe be surprised a little. Its perfectly normal to feel the way you do at eleven. Sammy seems like a good person too.

On a more serious note though: you're not ready to "get serious" with her. Also, don't do too much touching... touching is good in little bits but you're still a boy and she's a girl. Keep some distance...

Just, don't think over things too much - take it easy, have fun. Relax. But don't worry too much about not worrying either. Getting all hyper or excited is normal too.

Don't be embarrassed about posting either. Asking for advice (in the right places, like from mom and dad) is a sign of maturity. Remember, this is the internet and you do not know any of us are who we say we are.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 7th, 2008, 10:22 pm 
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I don't think you are too young, I met my current boyfriend back when I was 10, but the thing is it doesn't have to be a gf/bf relationship right from the start, someone to hang around and have fun with is a good start. Love really developed later on as we get more familiar and comfortable around each other.
As for your parents' view, you really don't know unless you talk to them, so talk to them, maybe they could offer insights that you haven't considered before. And one more thing, you and her have more in common than you realize, you are both homeschooled, so both of you, and your parents all have this in common, I say start from there. Think creatively, and always act with respect.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
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Why not just be friends? Girls are a lot different than boys and can be fun to hang around with. I would tell your mom and dad, just say, "I like Sammy, you know." They won't freak out or anything. Maybe be surprised a little. Its perfectly normal to feel the way you do at eleven. Sammy seems like a good person too.

On a more serious note though: you're not ready to "get serious" with her. Also, don't do too much touching... touching is good in little bits but you're still a boy and she's a girl. Keep some distance...

Just, don't think over things too much - take it easy, have fun. Relax. But don't worry too much about not worrying either. Getting all hyper or excited is normal too.

Don't be embarrassed about posting either. Asking for advice (in the right places, like from mom and dad) is a sign of maturity. Remember, this is the internet and you do not know any of us are who we say we are.

Good luck :icon_thumleft:


ok tyvvvvvm for the advice but for some reason u got the name wrong...lol. go back and read it again. =P
but again good advice ty.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 9th, 2008, 7:19 am 
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Hah, I mean Jackie, right, sorry about that.



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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
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Axes, let me take the time to be a bit of a jerk, but still be helpful. The way you type, from what I know of your upbringing (homeschooling, etc.) and your typing, you are too young to have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Not too young to like a girl, but too young to have a relationship. I remember when I was around your age. Girls were glorious, new, exciting and fun to hang around. Even now, a good 3/4 of my friends are girls. So hang out with this Jackie girl, have fun, but don't do make it "official" or anything. Enjoy being a kid for now.

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 10th, 2008, 6:22 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
PostPosted: August 12th, 2008, 12:07 am 
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Abc231 wrote:
Wow Sher, I feel like I just typed all that, because I'm in the same exact situation. Except we're the same age and I KNOW she likes me. She's told me flat out before, but she's also going out with a guy that she's know since kindergarten (but not necessarily liked since then).

Halp plz.


My advice, be patient. It's hard, but if you truly don't want to mess it up, its the best option by far. Patience will pay off. Trust me ;) ;) ;)

Note: A week ago I would of answered completely differently lol

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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
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wow, i was just going to come in here asking for girl advice, but now i just feel kind of one upped here!


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 Post subject: Re: Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?
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well i am not normally one to ask for girl help :oops:

anyway

so how would i know if a girl likes me? i've only had one girlfriend in my life (im 17 btw) and i asked her out because i knew for a fact she was into me...

so theres this girl im friends with now and she seems to kind of like me but i dont want to be rejected and then it will be weird being friends with her, how can i find out if she digs me?


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PostPosted: August 30th, 2008, 5:14 pm 
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Axes, let me take the time to be a bit of a jerk, but still be helpful. The way you type, from what I know of your upbringing (homeschooling, etc.) and your typing, you are too young to have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Not too young to like a girl, but too young to have a relationship. I remember when I was around your age. Girls were glorious, new, exciting and fun to hang around. Even now, a good 3/4 of my friends are girls. So hang out with this Jackie girl, have fun, but don't do make it "official" or anything. Enjoy being a kid for now.


no offence, but how the heck does my typing skills show my maturity? lol. and homeschooling has been proven better than public/goverment schools. and its like, 'official", lol, our moms, and dads, or even our friends dont know. just jackies bro, (my best bud)

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