Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?

Matt258 · **Posted:** March 17th, 2008, 3:54 pm

My current situation!!!
I have been hanging out with a girl I knew in high school for the past two months. We didn't see eachother since Graduation in 2004! We have been spending lots of time together. Last week I let her borrow my car while I was at work. She came to pick me up after I got off. Last night I went over to her house & she said that she was going to see some of her friends & wanted to borrow my car. I said that was ok & that she could come to my house when she was done. Well she was supposed to be done & back by my house by 11:45 pm. Then I called her since I let her borrow my cell phone & she said she was staying with her friend. That was at 3 am. I have been calling her all day & left messages at her mom's house asking where she is. My mom got home a couple of mins ago & was very mad that she wasn't back yet! Now my dad is coming home from work to take me over to her mom's hose so we will talk about my car. My mom doesen't want me to be friends with her anymore but I'm in Love with her (since I liked her ih high school) Hope that she is over at her mom's house or her mom has some numbers that I could call.

Simons Pure · **Posted:** March 17th, 2008, 5:20 pm

Ill put this simply. You trusted her, she blew it.

Macho Nacho · **Posted:** March 22nd, 2008, 8:07 am

Here's my pathetic plea:

Well, I finally found somebody I liked. I took over 6 months of my life just trying to get to know her, and then we dated. That lasted about two weeks, and she breaks up with me, because "She didn't think she could handle a relationship." I've been pretty upset about things. Perhaps I just get too attached.

Simons Pure · **Posted:** March 22nd, 2008, 9:40 am

And you want help with.... >_>

Hojunhu · **Posted:** March 23rd, 2008, 7:19 am

Macho, I wouldn't fret the love thing. It'll all work out. I beleive in a fate-ish thing and if it doesn't work out it wasn't "meant to be". But hey, who knows, maybe she'll "be ready for a relationship" later on and she'll call you up one day.

Kenny · **Posted:** March 26th, 2008, 6:11 pm

Matt258 wrote:

My current situation!!!
I have been hanging out with a girl I knew in high school for the past two months. We didn't see eachother since Graduation in 2004! We have been spending lots of time together. Last week I let her borrow my car while I was at work. She came to pick me up after I got off. Last night I went over to her house & she said that she was going to see some of her friends & wanted to borrow my car. I said that was ok & that she could come to my house when she was done. Well she was supposed to be done & back by my house by 11:45 pm. Then I called her since I let her borrow my cell phone & she said she was staying with her friend. That was at 3 am. I have been calling her all day & left messages at her mom's house asking where she is. My mom got home a couple of mins ago & was very mad that she wasn't back yet! Now my dad is coming home from work to take me over to her mom's hose so we will talk about my car. My mom doesen't want me to be friends with her anymore but I'm in Love with her (since I liked her ih high school) Hope that she is over at her mom's house or her mom has some numbers that I could call.

Ow.. just hope she didnt steal your stuff O.O

Erica · January 23, 2008, 4:35

what do you do if your best friend decideds that her boyfriend is more important then you and you guys shouldnt be friends, then 2 months later dediceds to be friends again, then you go out and hang out for like an hour and then she decideds you shouldn't be friends again?

(notes im feeling super depressed.)

Simons Pure · **Posted:** April 2nd, 2008, 1:43 pm

Ã…mericankiÃ wrote:

what do you do if your best friend decideds that her boyfriend is more important then you and you guys shouldnt be friends, then 2 months later dediceds to be friends again, then you go out and hang out for like an hour and then she decideds you shouldn't be friends again?

(notes im feeling super depressed.)

You tell them to GTFO the next time they ask to go out, or say.."I have better things to do...Such as watch paint dry"

Erica · January 23, 2008, 4:35

you are the most insensitive person i know congrats you win jerk of the year.

Simons Pure · **Posted:** April 2nd, 2008, 2:07 pm

Ã…mericankiÃ wrote:

you are the most insensitive person i know congrats you win jerk of the year.

And the friend who just switches when they like you wins the most sensitive award?

Erica · January 23, 2008, 4:35

they are better then you aparently cause they atleast listen to me even knowing were not friends.

Simons Pure · **Posted:** April 2nd, 2008, 2:31 pm

Ã…mericankiÃ wrote:

they are better then you aparently cause they atleast listen to me even knowing were not friends.

Personally, if someone treats me like Fuzzy Bunny

and then try to be friends with me, I tell them to do one..

peter · **Posted:** April 12th, 2008, 6:17 pm

If your not in 3rd grade then dont have friends in 3rd grade or ones that act like it?

Sherbros · **Posted:** May 2nd, 2008, 4:11 pm

Well I'm fairly desperate for advice... I really just don't know what to do, so what the heck...

So, theres this girl a year younger that I really like, and we have a ton of things in common and stuff. The last week I've talked to her pretty much, and I get a feeling she is fairly interested...

I want to ask her out, except she has a boyfriend... (I'm not sure how "serious" they are, but they have been friends for a long time).

What can I do?

Hojunhu · **Posted:** May 2nd, 2008, 8:11 pm

Sherbros wrote:

Well I'm fairly desperate for advice... I really just don't know what to do, so what the heck...

So, theres this girl a year younger that I really like, and we have a ton of things in common and stuff. The last week I've talked to her pretty much, and I get a feeling she is fairly interested...

I want to ask her out, except she has a boyfriend... (I'm not sure how "serious" they are, but they have been friends for a long time).

What can I do?

Sit in a corner like a creeper and hope they break up.

Simons Pure · **Posted:** May 3rd, 2008, 7:30 pm

Sherbros wrote:

Well I'm fairly desperate for advice... I really just don't know what to do, so what the heck...

So, theres this girl a year younger that I really like, and we have a ton of things in common and stuff. The last week I've talked to her pretty much, and I get a feeling she is fairly interested...

I want to ask her out, except she has a boyfriend... (I'm not sure how "serious" they are, but they have been friends for a long time).

What can I do?

You either find out how serious they are..Try and decypher (Yes..Girl's have there language which need's breaking) if she likes you or not. Or just flat out tell her you like her, If she doesn't like though that would make thing's worse and would make you hurt alot >_>

svstoned · **Posted:** May 5th, 2008, 7:56 am

If she's your friend she wouldn't mind if you told her you liked her, even if she has a boyfriend wich she's really close with...
I'd say go for it.

People are usually afraid of rejection but there's nothing to be afraid of if you know you're going to be rejected, atleast then you got it off your chest and now she knows what you feel for her...

You never know, she might infact be considering leaving her boyfriend but she needs affection and would die without.
Or
She might break up in the future with her boyfriend and then she'd think of you, call you on the phone and ask a stupid question wich is a dead give away that she wants you :p

Tell me how it turned out

Ps: let's just hope for you (because i don't give a damn) that she's not a bitch!

Bitches... ^_^;

Sherbros · **Posted:** May 5th, 2008, 3:12 pm

svstoned wrote:

If she's your friend she wouldn't mind if you told her you liked her, even if she has a boyfriend wich she's really close with...
I'd say go for it.

People are usually afraid of rejection but there's nothing to be afraid of if you know you're going to be rejected, atleast then you got it off your chest and now she knows what you feel for her...

You never know, she might infact be considering leaving her boyfriend but she needs affection and would die without.
Or
She might break up in the future with her boyfriend and then she'd think of you, call you on the phone and ask a stupid question wich is a dead give away that she wants you :p

Tell me how it turned out

Ps: let's just hope for you (because i don't give a damn) that she's not a <img src=http://runevillage.net/ThePub/images/smiles/bunny.gif></img>!

<img src=http://runevillage.net/ThePub/images/smiles/bunny.gif></img>... ^_^;

The thing is, I'm not really friends with her. Before 3 weeks ago I never had talked to her, but since then, gradually I'm talking to her more and more.

She's actually a really nice girl, so I guess we'll see how it turns out....

Discrimin8 · **Posted:** July 24th, 2008, 6:18 pm

Wow Sher, I feel like I just typed all that, because I'm in the same exact situation. Except we're the same age and I KNOW she likes me. She's told me flat out before, but she's also going out with a guy that she's know since kindergarten (but not necessarily liked since then).

Halp plz.

Loner · **Posted:** July 24th, 2008, 7:24 pm

Abc231 wrote:

Wow Sher, I feel like I just typed all that, because I'm in the same exact situation. Except we're the same age and I KNOW she likes me. She's told me flat out before, but she's also going out with a guy that she's know since kindergarten (but not necessarily liked since then).

Halp plz.

Kill her boyfriend. :shifty:

<3

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