i am glad That you guys can laugh at em without laughing at me lol
just jokeing Watch 40 yr old virgin
You gotta Nock off a couple Hood rats to get experience and then you will be more
convident and then you guys can take off your glass's and get contacts
and maybe not play rs

ahh I am jokeing about the rs thing
I have a mowhak and lip pierceing and still play rs how funny

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Ok, try this, Instead of "thinking" about something you do, just go ahead and do it. I think, it's more fun if you do things in the spur of the moment, regardless of being in a relationship, hanging with friends, talking to some strangers, I find, if you just do whatever pops into your head, and have that attitude all the time, people figure it out that "oh he's a spur of the moment kind of guy" and if you do something spontaneous or spur of the moment, and it doesn't work out, they forgive you, because they know that you just say whatever.

But dont' be like that all the time. I get in trouble for it. But i think that would help you?

Yeah.

-ames

I have a problem, there is this girl I greatly admire.But she has some sort of vendetta against boys. She knows I like her, but I have no idea on what to do next and im going to leave my school by next year. Ive only had experience once before and so im not too confident. HELP ME!

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@spirrus
confront her tell her in her face i like you and if you dont mind how about we get sum pizza after school together.
easy as pie takes sum courage and self confidence but it usually works.
if she says no take it like a man who cares theres many other hot girls out there.


@ simons pure
i kinda get your situation cuz i also have to female friends who are best friends and also my girlfriends friends and if you wanna ask them out dont
the one thing you can do wich would actually help is go do something with them like hey wanna go to the lake\beach hang out have some fun she just might fall in love with you and if she doesnt hey atleast you had some fun.

@ all the nerds hahahahahahaha no just joking but a simple tipp make more normal female friends you´ll learn how to act with girls and you´ll feel more confident around them ok i shouldnt be talking i was shaking on my first date well second i was way more chilled out at the first 1.

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Dont feel that you have to do stuff because of peer pressure. Most of all don't worry about not being confident and when the situation arrises you wont have time to be nervous, A lot of people are nervous about being with a member of the opposit sex they are attracted to, Don't be because stuff just happens, Just trust your intincts and you will be fine. I would reconment casually approaching her have a brief chat and then say somthing like " i really like you, do you wanna go for a drink sometime?" And good luck if she has a vendetta against boys

hmm theres the problem i live in manchester england theres not really any beaches/lakes here closest is like 3 hours away and like im gonna get my dad too drive me and two amazing girls who i like too the beach

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dont take me so literal ask her for pizza and offer to pay

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Day 1
Well, I guess it started last night, I was online doing somethin for a school project ( >_< ) and It is due tomorrow, well I got a message from a friend askin for help on rs, and although I was supposed to do the project I popped on to show him where something was. My mom came in and saw me on and freaked out. She was like "Your supposed to be doing your project, maybe if you didn't just wait till today to start it you could be doing that" I then went and said "I was just helpin someone, jesus...." She then went off on something about that... wasn't paying attention because she was yelling... then my dad comes in, Let me fill you in on some stuff about him.

My dad likes to drink alcohol... alot And he had only had a couple glasses of the dirnk he likes and he then went off on me, I ran into my room being pissed off atm and lwent out the front door to the side yard, my dad thought I went around back and I went to open front door to go in my room, sadly he locked the front door, I waited until I heard him come in the front door and rushed through the back into my room and locked the door. He then found out I was in there and was banging on the door for me to unlock it, I withstood for about 5 minutes, but it got sooo damn annoying so I unlocked it (I'm usally a realy shy, timid person but I was pissed) and he got in my face telling me about how I should have been doin this and that, well I got right back in his face and not budging or showing fear. At that point I realized they can't do anything serious with me besides ground me, or spank but that doesnt hurt... I could tell they were pissed at me at the way they were acting and such, but I thought, hey, My dad's a drunk and my mom can be violent... Ima piss them off like they do to me sometimes, so lately I have been acting awful, boohoo.

Day 2
Today started pretty much like normal, went to school, came back. I got off the bus just as my mom was comin home from work and I helped her with the groceried. Well with my report I had mostly done last night I still had to get my favorite actor and actress, my two favorite movies, two favorite tv shows, and my favorite move I have seen this summer, Well I do not have a favorite actor/actress, Only have one favorite tv show, and I havent seen any new movies this summer, did I mention I'm poor? Well, I get on the comp to browse RV and do my project, I cant think of anything so I go watch tv hopefully thinking I can come up with something for my project. Well the night before some images I got were printing at the wrong size, so while I was thinking my mom was telling me to get on the computer and do my project, I told her im thinking and she said "Well go fix the damn printer." So, I say "No." She gets real pissy and threatens to spank me with a wooden board... Well then she goes and gets a belt trying to make me get on the comp and do it and she actually started to swing it, I ran and locked my self in the room and she goes to take the door knob off. I am like "What is your damn problem?" She then keeps complaing for me to get on comp and "get the damn thing done." I get on and type this...

GAH IM PISSED, HELP!!!!!!!!!

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i had trouble with my mom but not as bad i got her to stop by sarcastic comments wich showed her how childish she is acting.
overall just explain why your not doing something for instance no im thinking.... no im thinking because i have to find my 2 favorite tv shows and i only have 1.

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I've done that... one of first things I said...

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well how about getting help by the school psychologist theyre usually quite helpful .

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Great topic, this message was to mark it for possible future use.

And Loner, you should really talk to school psychologist about your parents' behaviour

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Ok don't stab anyone. That wouldn't help. If your older brother is giving you a hard time just try to ignore him. Block him out so he doesn't grate on your nerves. That goes with everyone else. If you feel like your getting annoyed or angry because of someone and you just want to reach for some sharp pointy object and stab them ignore them and block them out. If that isn't possible then get out of the room.

Alright there is a reason for everyone to live. You just have to look for it. If you feel like all your reasons are up look for more. Keep searching but never give up.





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well this friend of mine....

jk.


Well I've been dating a girl for about half a year now and she's the only gf i've ever had.

The problem is that she acts excited when she talks to everyone else and when she talks to me she always seems like she's in a normal or sad mood...

She used to act really excited around me and I just don't know what to do. I'm afraid I might be losing her slowly. She get's worried if something happens to me and she wants to spend a ton of time with me but she just never seems happy...

She used to have this stalker but I helped her deal with that and now she has a restraining order... but something just seems to bother her.

I know she hates doctors and shrinks and my mom makes me go to a shrink now... However I just don't think she'd be one to focus on that...

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well find out what she likes show her some new sides of you surprise her make her feel special. I mean isnt that what every women is ....special.
Even if she wants to spend a lot of time together make the time count have a good time.....OMG pyro i owe u i just noticed sumthing about my own relationship i´d better fix this

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just send me a cupcake.

She seems to be acting more normal now. Apparently she was nervous about High School more so than I thought. Plus she was trying to hurry to classes to avoid that kid that stalked her. Restraining orders aren't very affective in schools

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The person that was stalking her is another student at her school?!

bartoron

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dude feeling like that happens alot on the dating scene i could tell with my last girlfriend(getting another today) which was around christmas, towards the end of the relationship she started being really strange/quiet etc and i got paranoid just dont start asking questing, if you guys like get bullied for getting dumped say too her"are we still working cause you seem quiet now adays and not as happy near me" hope it helps

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Pfft! That hardly ever works.

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Thanks.

When someone is annoying me or just wont go away I ignore them. That works for me. My friend, when she gets mad at certain people she stays away from them and goes into another room or walks away. That works for her too.