Exactly.
I used to get bullied a lot in school (by girls, none the less).
I tried ignoring them for a long time but it only finally stopped when I had enough one day and hit back.
You have to stand up for yourself. If you get in trouble try explaining to the teacher/principal that you are being bullied and this is the only thing that stops it. Better this than holding it all in until you snap and bring a gun to school or something horrible like that.

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alright well i used to pick on kids because i was "cooler" but i passed that stage and only make fun of my friends now
but the thing that pleases a bully is either when they fight back because they're looking for some attention or if they neglect anything that the bully does to them.. it makes them feel better than you.. so if you already know nobodys better than anyone and you can do the mature thing and just walk away, do that..

Heres a little story

Me and my buddies were snowboarding once, we were just doing little 360s off of the ground out of manuals and some losers in the woods started throwing snowballs, so we went over and told them to cut it out or we'll kick their _ _ _. and one kid chucks it at me so i grabbed him, pulled him toward me and told him not to f'in do it again, and then threw him back where he was.. then the other came down to me as i was about to leave and said you wana act tough? im puerto rican ill kick your _ _ _. at this point i found it pretty funny, and then he started to take his studded leather belt off and wrap it around his wrist.. earlier is hould have left the scene, but especially now i should have got up and left, i mean i was on a board i coulda just been at the bottom and out of there in a minute.. but i stayed and i just started talking back
The kid comes over and swings at me, misses with a bad throw and i hit him in the stomache.. he kicked me and we both went down and on the way down i got a punch in the eye with a studded piece and then i put his face in the snow, put his hand with the belt behind his back and threw it into the woods.. then he gets up and starts yelling and then calls a ski patrol over in tears.. saying a completely altered story how i came up and tackled them.. it was kinda obvious that wasnt the case, but crowd control was called and we had to write a statement and those kids were kicked off for a month and i was off for a week..

looking back on it i should have NEVER gotten invovled because for all i knew the kid could have hit me much harder and even had a weapon or what not. if the kids stupid enough to wrap a studded leather belt around his fist and start swinging, he, especially anyone else, can be stupid enough to start swiping a knife by your face..

moral of the story, f the kid, just walk away. man up and walk away

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Yeah... I used to get bullied at school, too... Until I fought back. I was going to get in trouble, but my mom went in to the principal's office and explained how I had been getting bullied for like 2 months and I couldn't take it anymore. I didn't get in any trouble at all, and the two people who had been bullying me got a week of detentions! Muahahaha!

This topic should have been here a few months ago... I had a huge situation. You see, I got my first girlfriend on October 25th of last year... We were really close and we didn't hardly go anywhere without each other. (I even got up at 4:00 in the blasted morning the day after Thanksgiving when those crazy sales are out because she wanted me to go shopping with her! Ugh! Lol.) So... I got used to hanging out with her and her 10 girly friends. But... Around December, I started talking to one of her best friends a lot at school... And I found out that she played Runescape... So we would talk a lot on Yahoo Messenger and RS... And I'd help her on RS and stuff. This continued until my birthday in January... I ended up inviting Rachel (first girlfriend) and Tessa (the other girl) to my birthday party... This is when I first discovered that I kind of liked Tessa... Then... Over the next month, my liking of Tessa grew even greater... As we continued to talk on RS, Yahoo, and at this point, sometimes even the phone. Rachel knew that we talked on RUNESCAPE, but not anything else. She also did not know that I kind of liked Tessa. So... Around the beginning of March, Tessa and I stay up until 6:00 AM, talking to each other on Yahoo about our feelings for each other... Let's just say around the end of March, I broke up with Rachel, and Tessa is my girlfriend now, and has been since the end of March... It was severely devastating for Rachel... She hates both of us now! Hurrah! (Actually, it's kinda sad... But what did I expect?) Anyway, that's kinda all put behind me and Tessa... We're really happy and looking forward to a long relationship. I've even had my first kiss ever (with Tessa)! Lol.

Oh well... I'm sure no one cared to read that... But I should've posted it around March when I really needed help.

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Priest of Saradomin as of Thu Feb 16, 2006 8:46 am
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I'm netural with like everyone in my school. I played this game called Tibia once, awesome game, teaches you psychological and manupilation. It helped me to use it in my school.

I have friends, I have people I'm neutral with, and I have no enemies. Well usually I get pissed with someone, then somehow, they forget about it, and I start acting nice to them like having a nice chat and stuff, and they forget all about the punch they received.

I'm not a big guy btw, I'm tiny.


Anyway, don't get any real enemies plx, and use psychological means, make friends with friends of your enemies if you already have some, and not the enemy itself. Etc...find allies. AOE3 STYLE! :p Anyway. Have Fun. Good Luk. And, if anything, start writing a book about a gay person you hate and then publish it. Works all the time. 'O and I forgot, read it out for assembly.'

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the vast majority of bullies will leave you alone if you do something like that, trust me, I know. However, it isn't the best thing to do. If this kid who hits you sits next to or near you, do what I did. I switched seats with somone in the class and stayed there. The teacher told me to move and I told them it was a risk to my own safety sitting there, so I stayed where I moved.

However, if otherwise, there are fewer things you can do. for example, if he ever hits you again just turn to him and scream in his face somehting along the lines of "back off man!". try to make yourself look as angry as possible while doing this, it should make them leave you alone.

If all else fails, talk to the teacher. Now, I know you said she wouldn't do anything, so take it higher. Go to senior staff if the need be. a good place to go would be the head of your year, they usually sort everything out, even if it is only for a while.

It's good to be in the high popular/middle popular range.Because, not only do you have someone that has your back but it will create some kind of fear in the "bully".I myself have only been bullied in kindergarden-4th grade,after that I blended in and i would say i'm in the middle popularity group.Would be nice to know how people think too I like doing mind tricks.And remember if you're smart and athletic like this person I know no one would want to fight you.

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I've never been bullied. Hint to anyone though..

If you are being bullied, best thing to do is not take any rubbish and stand up for youreself if you think something will take off from there. If they think youre a pushover then obviously they will feed off you.

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Well, i get bullied and the best thing to do is NOT tell anyone at all because it messes with you. Talk to your parents or family members like your brother or sister. Try find a good friend you can talk to about it aswell. And if he does anything don't stand up for yourself if it risks you been suspended just walk away, it takes more to walk away from a fight to start throwing your fists around everywhere and hit someone. Just ignore them bascially and they will leave you alone.

well that works in most cases but the quicker way is to fight back and stand up for your self you know not physically but get sum friends talk quietly but loud enough for him to hear it and then insult him big time and walk off and if u wanna fight him hey do it outside of school.

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call him any innopropriate name and that he should pick on someone that gives a crap. but then again that would just mean that he's just a wussy baby inside for just needing to pick on someone in the first place to make himself feel like a man. he may hit you. but he'll be dead inside.

sTEVE!

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ok, here is my problem, i have to think about everything way too much. I have to think about every angle of something before i do it. it has caused me to miss out on a lot of fun things and because of this i haven't had a relationship in a year. i feel that this might be caused by a lack of confidence. I am looking for a way to help this.

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Are you talking about having a girlfriend?

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I have a kid in my class that bullied me, and what my bro told me to do is tell him something along the lines of this: "When I grow up and get a real job, i'm gunna drive by in my Jaguar at McDonalds where you work, and laugh in your face" Jaguar can be replaced by Porsche, Aston Martin, Bently, Rolls Royce, etc. (I prefer Porsche

Having older brothers i great, whenever I mention a bully they always say "Where does he live? Whats his name? I swear to god Brandon and I will track him down!" Brandon and Aaron are my brothers, they're tough as rock and strong as steel. If you don't have older brothers, ask a parent.

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"It's better to die on your feet than live on your knees!"-Emiliano Zarta
"The real and lasting victories are those of peace, and not of war."-Ralph Waldo Emerson
"He who fears being conquered is sure of defeat."-Napoleon Bonaparte

Right now, I feel like there's not another reason to live. I'm getting annoyed by my older brother who I want to just stab to death along with other members of my family. I just want to end the lives of everyone who made mine worse cosntantly.

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