Unsure What To Do In A Situation? Do You Need Advice?

Gill Shop · **Posted:** May 6th, 2007, 1:14 pm

Hoof Noob wrote:

Gill_shop wrote:

Ok so recently me and My first boyfriend broke up. It was pretty serious. But i did and said some stupid stuff to ruin it. I told him. when he broke up with me that he was my first boyfriend and I didn't know what I was doing. I came off like a tottal b**** and i am totally not. He said he would forgive me. I still Think I love him. but he wont talk to me I have apologized but he says he said he will never forgive me. I want to show who I truly am but he wont talk to me. I still want to be with him

From experience, these kinds of people don't give up, and will never forgive you. My advice is to let it go, give yourself some time to get over him, since I know that stuff isn't a simple, "kay, I don't like you anymore, and I'm fine about it!", and then go and try to get another boyfriend, or just stay single and enjoy all the boys hitting on you.

ahahaha guys don't hit on me

Hoof Hearted · **Posted:** May 6th, 2007, 1:40 pm

Gill_shop wrote:

Hoof Noob wrote:

Gill_shop wrote:

Ok so recently me and My first boyfriend broke up. It was pretty serious. But i did and said some stupid stuff to ruin it. I told him. when he broke up with me that he was my first boyfriend and I didn't know what I was doing. I came off like a tottal b**** and i am totally not. He said he would forgive me. I still Think I love him. but he wont talk to me I have apologized but he says he said he will never forgive me. I want to show who I truly am but he wont talk to me. I still want to be with him

From experience, these kinds of people don't give up, and will never forgive you. My advice is to let it go, give yourself some time to get over him, since I know that stuff isn't a simple, "kay, I don't like you anymore, and I'm fine about it!", and then go and try to get another boyfriend, or just stay single and enjoy all the boys hitting on you.

ahahaha guys don't hit on me

Hey baby, did it hurt?
<insert you saying, "did what hurt?">
When you fell from heaven.

Gamestar · **Posted:** May 6th, 2007, 1:42 pm

Hoofs got a crush!

:shifty:

Don't do it hun, he's bad news!

And he smells.

Bad.

Like six week old cheese bad :-s

Cheese that was left behind the radiator.

Gill Shop · **Posted:** May 6th, 2007, 1:50 pm

Off course it did lol wow you guys are awesome lol

yes gamestar I know lol but but hes so cute :lol:

Gamestar · **Posted:** May 6th, 2007, 2:41 pm

*cough*

There ya go Hoof! Thats the first, and last, girl to say that to you! *sceenies it for you*

<3

Gill Shop · **Posted:** May 6th, 2007, 2:50 pm

hehehe personallity counts more then looks and hoofs amazing hahaha I think i am hitting on hoof lol he's my bros

Hoof Hearted · **Posted:** May 7th, 2007, 2:02 pm

Gill_shop wrote:

hehehe personallity counts more then looks and hoofs amazing hahaha I think i am hitting on hoof lol he's my bros

<3

Gill Shop · **Posted:** May 7th, 2007, 4:13 pm

Gill_shop wrote:

Ok so recently me and My first boyfriend broke up. It was pretty serious. But i did and said some stupid stuff to ruin it. I told him. when he broke up with me that he was my first boyfriend and I didn't know what I was doing. I came off like a tottal b**** and i am totally not. He said he would forgive me. I still Think I love him. but he wont talk to me I have apologized but he says he said he will never forgive me. I want to show who I truly am but he wont talk to me. I still want to be with him

Thank you for the advice He forgave me and were back together
sorry Hoof

Gamestar · **Posted:** May 7th, 2007, 5:56 pm

No way! You have to break up with him! This might be Hoofs only change of flirting with a girl, without being slapped!
You wouldn't take that away from him, would you?!

<3 Hoof really.

Anyway - Congrats

I'm glad that you two sorted things out.... Just try not to make the same mistake twice :wink:

Hoof Hearted · **Posted:** May 7th, 2007, 6:03 pm

Gill_shop wrote:

Ok so recently me and My first boyfriend broke up. It was pretty serious. But i did and said some stupid stuff to ruin it. I told him. when he broke up with me that he was my first boyfriend and I didn't know what I was doing. I came off like a tottal b**** and i am totally not. He said he would forgive me. I still Think I love him. but he wont talk to me I have apologized but he says he said he will never forgive me. I want to show who I truly am but he wont talk to me. I still want to be with him

Thank you for the advice He forgave me and were back together
sorry Hoof

NOOOOOOO

Nah, that's good

Make sure you whip him into shape eh?

Gill Shop · **Posted:** May 8th, 2007, 5:20 pm

Malkin wrote:

I went through a dating spree in HighScool which i later regretted/thanked.

Some were bad experiences, cheated on/Girl wasnt as nice as she was your mate/All they wanted was one thing.

Thanked - I had a girlfriend when i was 15 [last year at school]. We were together for about...well - 1 year and a half. Her sisters best mate was Katie.

We didnt split up, she passed away from reasons we still dont know to this day. It took me AGES to get over that [A good year]. But her sister came to me when we were graduating and sad shed found this. [Was a little box with all her things she kept from when we were dating - letters etc]. Good memories, and it also shaped the rest of my life :wink:

I got my first kiss when i was 12 i think, but i should of definitely waited. I was immature and hormones were raging. First kisses are SPECIAL, very. You can NEVER change who that first person was.

Besides, who cares, if they want to pick you on because you havent kissed a girl yet, let them get on with it [When they sleep around there gonna get in trouble arent they - in more ways than one

]

Also remember that its a good test in a girl. Just tell the first girlfriend you have that you havent kissed before. If shes understanding and 'teaches' you regardless. Then shes a brilliant girl. If she dumps you and mouths of to everyone else you havent kissed before - then shes quite obviously immature and, *Word not said but you get the gist*.

Me and Katie met each other at college and it was only that she recognised me from the funeral that she said "Hay". Otherwise she admitted she liked me, but was too shy to ever say anything.

So...it all works out somehow.

Never be ashamed of who you are or what you have/havent done. At the end of the day, if your mates laugh at you and <img src="http://runevillage.net/ThePub/images/smiles/bunny.gif"></img> - they arent really that good mates are they?

M@lk - Hope ive been some help

I had gone through the same thing recently. I am a 17 year old girl And I had never had my first kiss which is really sad for a girl let me tell you.Then I met My current boyfriend (which i had recent troubles with). When I admeted that I had never had my first kiss. He kisses me right there In the spot he said there theres your first kiss.It was honestly a kiss I will never forget. So if she turns out to be anything thing like my boyfriend. She will accept you for who you are.

Matt · **Posted:** May 15th, 2007, 10:29 am

It's not really a situation... That word doesn't even apply to me now. But the stress and pressure of exams, problems at home and just general annoyances that I've kept buried have all got to me... And today I realised.

Right now I don't give a damn about anything for some reason. Which isn't a good thing when you're stressed out, since I've contemplated suicide before.

Any ideas. :S

-Matt

Brae · **Posted:** May 21st, 2007, 8:53 pm

ok, so this might be pretty complicated, and hard to follow? so sorry in advance.

Me and my girlfriend of over 2.5 years just broke up, but she's trying to guilt me into staying with her, but i just dont feel the same about her now.
This was like 2 weeks ago.
Now, im starting to fall for another girl, hard; but we're friends, AND she has a boyfriend that she argues with all the time. She's also been making comments that make her seem interested.

What should i do.

Gamestar · **Posted:** May 22nd, 2007, 1:11 pm

Matt wrote:

It's not really a situation... That word doesn't even apply to me now. But the stress and pressure of exams, problems at home and just general annoyances that I've kept buried have all got to me... And today I realised.

Right now I don't give a damn about anything for some reason. Which isn't a good thing when you're stressed out, since I've contemplated suicide before.

Any ideas. :S

-Matt

Okay.. Well first things first, Suicide is never an option. You think it is an easy escape from your problems, when it only causes more. You don't realise that by doing that you are hurting those who love you; your friends and family. So lets leave that one alone. No matter how tempting it may be.
Secondly, it is just a stressful time for you at the moment. The stress of exams are just things that everyone has to go through, I'm sorry, but there is nothing you can do there...
Problems at home - What type of problems? Can they be sorted out by talking to the right people? If so you should talk to your mum/dad about these problems. Tell them that it is getting to you and that you do not know what will happen if it isn't sorted out. If they can't / won't do anything to help you, then it might be worth asking to stop at a friend or family members house, just for a few days to cool down.
I hope you sort everything out man

Brae wrote:

ok, so this might be pretty complicated, and hard to follow? so sorry in advance.

Me and my girlfriend of over 2.5 years just broke up, but she's trying to guilt me into staying with her, but i just dont feel the same about her now.
This was like 2 weeks ago.
Now, im starting to fall for another girl, hard; but we're friends, AND she has a boyfriend that she argues with all the time. She's also been making comments that make her seem interested.

What should i do.

... Tough sitch there...
Tell your girlfriend that you do not want to get back together... though do it nicely. Everyone knows that the whole "We can still be friends" hardly ever works, but tell her this. If she really does like you then she will let you go, with the promise to always be your friend.
As for this other girl, don't go jumping into another relationship just yet. Talk to her, and tell her how you feel. Tell her you know about her arguments and that you think she should break up with him, because things will not get better. After a while you can / should ask this girl out, and see her response. If she denys, then just carry on as normal... Try to get closer to her, and allow her to get close to you.
Love is a strange thing, so you may find that she likes you in return

Good luck guys. Hope I could help

Matt · **Posted:** May 24th, 2007, 6:25 am

Thing is I think I have a touch of manic depression. In that some days, like right now, I feel real happy for no reason... And other days EVERYTHING gets to me.

I'm not going to go to a doctor about it because I don't want to ever be diagnosed with something like that, I'd rather just know myself for who I am.

My head is pretty messed up, but hey although I can feel really depressed sometimes, it's worth feeling happy for no reason ^_^

-Matt

Donut Juice · **Posted:** May 24th, 2007, 2:11 pm

Matt wrote:

Thing is I think I have a touch of manic depression. In that some days, like right now, I feel real happy for no reason... And other days EVERYTHING gets to me.

I'm not going to go to a doctor about it because I don't want to ever be diagnosed with something like that, I'd rather just know myself for who I am.

My head is pretty messed up, but hey although I can feel really depressed sometimes, it's worth feeling happy for no reason ^_^

-Matt

I seem to get that too quite a bit, I'll feel like doing back flips I'm so happy some times of the day, and then other times anything gets to me, as you said.

Weird.

Gamestar · **Posted:** May 24th, 2007, 3:28 pm

Donut Juice wrote:

Matt wrote:

Thing is I think I have a touch of manic depression. In that some days, like right now, I feel real happy for no reason... And other days EVERYTHING gets to me.

I'm not going to go to a doctor about it because I don't want to ever be diagnosed with something like that, I'd rather just know myself for who I am.

My head is pretty messed up, but hey although I can feel really depressed sometimes, it's worth feeling happy for no reason ^_^

-Matt

I seem to get that too quite a bit, I'll feel like doing back flips I'm so happy some times of the day, and then other times anything gets to me, as you said.

Weird.

Sorry Donut, means your pregnant

Annnyway. I know this can be hard to understand, but its best if you talk to someone who can help. Matt, your only 14 so no offence, but its best if you go to a Doctors. Yes, they might prescribe you with something, but you will get medication to help you. Thats all I can say, sorry man.

sethg5 · **Posted:** June 7th, 2007, 7:41 pm

how do i put in an application???

bartoron · **Posted:** June 7th, 2007, 8:11 pm

sethg5 wrote:

how do i put in an application???

An application for what? :-s

Donut Juice · **Posted:** June 12th, 2007, 3:34 pm

bartoron wrote:

sethg5 wrote:

how do i put in an application???

An application for what? :-s

I'm assuming he means for helping people on this topic. Seth, if you want to help anyone, there's no application needed, feel free to give them a helpful post relevant to their problem.

Thanks

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