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My opinion would be different if it was earlier, the whole 'doesn't want a boyfriend in grade 12' makes the situation quite a bit more difficult, but nonetheless, you'll need to act now. I suggest saying it carefully and maturely, if the answer is no, which it very well might be, don't pester her about it, that's what will ruin the friendship. Asking her out won't change your friendship a great deal, maybe a couple minutes of awkardness now and then, but other than that, it's a risk worthy to take.

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ok so my gf and i broke up like what yesterday and we're both going to the same party with seperate groups though...Her best friend told me that my ex would be mad at me for being there. Now honestly should i care or go. I'm tending to going but i'm not sure.

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Well your ex shouldn't be telling you if she doesn't want you going to a party. Since you guys broke up its your decision to do what you want.

When you're in a relationship, your partner should influence some, or many of your decisions, when you're not in a relationship with this person, they have no power to tell you what, or what not to do.
Would you really care if I went up and told you not to go to the party?

I no it may sound harsh but if she does anything, push her back slightly and say" You dont control me, were not going out anymore get it in your head, either be my friend or back off!"
does that help? ive done it

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Yeah man, gr 7 is bigger step then gr 6, All my teachers have even said, i'm in gr 8 now and I have average grades, First off, what I did, cut off rs, and do your homework, STUDY STUDY STUDY. On the girl problem, just tell her how you feel about her, if she respects that then hey your off to a good start,

Goro

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I like this girl in my Tae Kwon Do class (martial arts class) but I'm too shy to tell her I like her but i do want to tell her. I am 12 and I don't know how old she is maybe 11 or 12? I think she might know i like her and i think she might like me but what should i do? I came up with these three options:

1. Tell her outright that i like her

2. Become friends with her friends then tell her I like her

3. Keep on giving hints that i like her (i guess its kind of flirting but not really)

I am leaning towards #1 but i want to know your opinions
I think there may be other people in my class who like her.

Well the "just friends" part is ALWAYS hard to deal with, especially since they're more comfortable with just being your friend, and no romatic stuff involved. If she's not looking for a boyfriend that's going to make it even harder, but there are definately possiblities that she could slightly want one. Just start flirting with her, ask her all about her, the usual stuff. Are you like best friends, known each other forever, or more like just known each other, hang out occasionally, but not a really long time? My advice would be to just take an interest in her, but not so much that it starts to turn creepy and stalker-ish (i bet that's obvious though ). Spend a little bit of extra time with her, call her a little bit more and in a lil while she'll start to get the hint that you like her, and of course, be flirtatious back in return or just start to pull away. Of course, if she starts to do pull away then just quit the stuff I said to do. That'll definately tell for sure if she will want to go out with you, and most likely without the damaging without you losing a friendship if she doesn't like you in that way. These situations are always hard to deal with dude, but I'm sure you'll do ok. Although, I'm REALLY not trying to be negative, but if she does deny you then you might want to seem like your really satisfied with that decision. I know it seems obvious, but if she thinks she's smashed ur ****in heart with a rock, she's gonna feel awkward around you.

The contact part is easy, and it might be a good thing that you'll ask her this semester while you have alot of classes together so you have more time being around her, for what I said above. Realtionship seems that it will go well considering that you are going to live close together after high school. If you don't ask her this semester though, you are going to have a harder time the next semester finding the time to do all the things that are kinda necessary. If you don't try or ask, you'll never know and always wonder what could have been.




#3, definately. She's gonna get creeped out if you just outright tell her. You'll get the "I don't even know you" answer if you just walk up to her. No offense, but I'm assuming that you don't know her all that well since you are unsure about her age. Just get to know her a little bit more, and eventually ask her out. Just warning you though, relationships can be tough to deal with especially since your 12. Not belittling you or anything, it's just that you might wanna hold off a little while. They're time consuming and hard to deal with, I would wait a little longer.





Your ex shouldn't be deciding for you dude. Honestly, if you broke up with her then you shouldn't give a flying **** what she thinks. That is, of course, if you don't want to be friends with her anymore which it sounds like she doesn't. Go to the party, and if she gets mad, tell her off. You don't have to care about her or what she thinks.

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Well i can see how frustrating this is, first ask your self are you ready for a relationship, 12 is kinda young. secondly dont go for number 2, if your friends she wont want to risk the friendship, and finally ask her if she wants to go to cinema or something then say you like her there







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I got a question...I'm 15 and i'm starting to get into the whole partying scene. And ummm well I also started getting into the drinking i'm not overdoing it never been drunk ok tipsy but no more. So should I be that good little boy who doesnt do anything or stay with what im doing.

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I'm not going to encourage anyone to break the law. So I need to know the laws in your area.

Let me just put it like this. Legal drinking from a young age (in moderation - always, with parental permission, in the home or with meals out depending on local laws) is a good thing if you plan on ever drinking. Otherwise what happens is you hit the legal age and start binging. That is not good.

Take one of my friends. She is Indian by birth, and never touched a drop in her life. On her 18th birthday (legal drinking age in the UK) she had about two drinks and was suddenly absolutely wasted. She made a fool of herself, made sexual aproaches towards someone she didn't much care for normaly, and then was sick several times. She simply had no alchohol tollarance.

However, those of us who had drunk with our parents or socialy for some time leading up to being able to drink freely tended to get off better. Admittedly people still overdo it when they have free run of a bar, but it is less destructive than if you have never drunk in your life.

So, drinking carefuly to build up a tollarance is a good thing. But be careful, particularly at parties and similar events. Drinks should always be watched carefuly. I know more than a few people who had something they were not sure of and ended up rather badly off because of it.

local law is (germany) beer wine and low alcohol at 16
wodka, campari at 18. Tried all of that...

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I have drank once excessivly at a party and got knocked out so much i couldnt walk..my mum had to pick me up.
i advise you if you are going to drink only have a beer or 2 nothing more. other than that it does give you liver cancer..

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Ah, I had my first serious beer out in Germany at 16. Served by the litre and nice and strong.

I would say keep it low intake and build up that tollerance. If you are German then the odds are the genetics are on your side. Lots of people from that region of Europe have an actual genetic tollerance to alcohol. Similarly people from some parts of Asia lack any natural tollerance at all...You are not going to get liver cancer from drinking too much on one night. More likely that will be alcohol poisoning or becoming extremely dehydrated (which can lead to brain damage or other organ failure). But we are talking extreme levels here, and if you ease into it over the course of a few years then you should be OK.

Liver damage is more likely to be a case of really extreme alcohol poisoning, or long term heavy drinking. It is rare to have sever liver damage from drinking without being a near or actual alcoholic.

If you are young, the risks are higher and the tollerances are lower, but that is mostly because you are not fully developed yet, and your body can't handle things at the same level as a fully grown adult would.

I actually ment if he drinks alot in general..

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Ok, there's this girl named Sam. We've known eachother since 1st grade (we're both highschool freshies now) and we never really talked much. I guess you could call us friends or something. Story time XD

Well, I kinda like her now lol. So I've been trying to talk to her more and stuff, ya know get to know her a little better than I already do. (My friends suggested that). However, whenever I try to have a conversation with her, she just kinda replies with something like "Umm..yeah..." and then goes off to talk to some other guys. Seems like she's ignoring me or something

I don't want to tell her because I'm afraid she'll try to avoid me more than it already seems like she does. It would be very akward. My friend says she already thinks I like her anyways. >_<

Is she ignoring me because she likes me too, but is just too shy to talk to me, or does she just find me repulsive?

Also: 3 really weird things about this whole situation.
1. People usually come to me for advice in this general area, so it feels very humbling asking other people something for once lol.
2. I'm not used to having a girl ignore me like this...especially a girl I've known for so long.
3. Yeah I know, it's all a little immature. I'm not usually like this >_< Boys+Teenage=Hormones anybody?

Macho Nacho

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make her laugh and shes gonna talk to you. And tell her u think shes ignoring u.

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hey hey theres nothing wrong with that... i've got my own problem like urs, but i haven't known the girl as long... o.o

anyhow, when she talks to you does she wear a face of disgust? If u have known her since 1st grade u shud know what it looks like lol... or does she blush and kind of stammer when she speaks to you... those are normally what happens if someone is repulsed or shy... but if she doesn't like you then you can't do jack about it... not meaning to sound pessimistic but i'm just saying.

and what scott said is pretty good, its always cool to make a girl laugh. and if she is ignoring you, then tell her. Ask her why she is ignoring you. The worst that can happen is her walking off rofl... which might show that she likes u...

this is all freaking complicated, things get a lot more tangled up when you like someone lol...

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