Take it easy man. Life is terrible.

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Joe, i'm really sorry for your loss. I've said it before on MSN, if you need a shoulder to cry on, i'm here for ya. I might be useless at what to say in these situations but i'm honestly a good listener. I've never really been in your situation, but the best thing really to do in any situation is stay with your friends. Think about me. How many times did i say i was going to quit RV when my dad had one of his moments or my mum moved up to Manchester? When did most need my friends and family? How many times did i crawl back?

Trust me, You probably need your friends the most when you want to step away from them. Yes, you do probably need some time just to come to terms with what's happened, and i agknowledge that, but it's so much harder to drop things and start over again than it is to pick up the pieces and rebuild what's been broken.

Stick with your family. They need you as much as you need them. As much as you might despise your step-mum, she's still a "relative" so-to-speak, and she's just lost her husband, just as you've just lost your dad. I really don't want to sound unsympathetic, but you really should stick with those close to you, at least for the forseeable future. When you really think you're ready to go, then make it so. But make sure you've got a clear head before making your decisions. I've made rash decisions when i've been pretty confused, and nearly got outlawed from the village due to them. Don't do the same with your future

Your loss is in my thoughts.

Take care bro

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There is a village, which is hidden in the shadow of a mountain.
Everybody is suffering from a lack of light.
One day, the eldest of this village leaves for the mountain with a teaspoon in his hands.
The others ask him what he intends to do.
He replies that he is going to move the mountain.
"But you will never succeed!" they cry out.
"No, i will never succeed, but somebody has to start."

~~~The Wising Up Song - Misty's Big Adventure

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Kikori wrote:

Runevillage the forum is pretty well much done. Runevillage the group will eventually die, but as long as we're still friends with each other in the end, it's still a pretty big thought in our heads. Runevillage the family is forever, no matter where we settle down. If absolutely nothing else ever comes of Runevillage in the future, that alone is a pretty damn awesome thought.

Thats a really good post, I honestly couldn't have said it better myself.

Take care Joe, there will always be a light on at the pub to guide you back if you need us.

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bye,am sorry about that

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Joe, I'm sorry to hear about your Dad, I couldn't begin to imagine the pain you must be going through, It's tragic, which would definitely be worse than death from old age.
Again, I'm really sorry, And I hope that you and your family can cope well, We're all here for you.

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Sorry to see you leave. If ya come back let me know; I will add you to the RVA roster =D

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Thanks guys. I appreciate the support.

I guess after a few weeks out it's helped and i'm back now
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