tell jo you really hate it that she told everyone your secrets make her feel bad.

i had the same problem with a girl that u had with kay tell her u really mean it right in her face tell her youd do anything and if she tells u to do sumthing do it.

about heather give her sum time

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Ok here's my dealio:

This girl Ariana and me were like best friends back in 5th grade. Went to different middle schools, 3 years we had no contact, met eachother again in highschool, blah blah blah. Same ol' story.
Onto the juicy part. Ok we both went to homecoming dance, she asked me to dance after we bumped into eachother there. Later some other girls around us (her friends) kept asking me to dance. I did once or twice because she was then dancing with some other guys; barely acknowledging I existed. Barely said a word to me the rest of the time; and avoided dancing with me when she saw some other guys were around.
Today, I hear she was looking for me at lunch; I wasn't at lunch today...not really sure if it's a good thing or bad thing. I just have this sorta feeling she's angry at me or something like that. although I have no idea why she'd could be mad at me.
Just confused about things...I was planning to ask her out sometime too. Should I ask her out? Do you think she's mad at me for something? Do you think she's interested in somebody else?

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People dance at dances. it's probally nothing. Chances are she just wants to talk to you or see you or something. Don't worry about it mate.

It always just eats me alive inside when people are angry at me and stuff. Especially my close friends...which has happened to me in the past before. *sigh of relief*

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but you don't know that she's angry. Until you know if she is or not, just assume she isn't. What reason would she have to be mad at you anyway?

Thanks man

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No problem, I like helping people out with problems.

Btw Flash, she just wanted to ask me out because her friend couldn't do it. Not that it's a bad thing, I was kinda gonna ask her out though. Idk if she's interested. w/e nothing wrong with just being friends, I suppose eh? Life is good, mmkay.

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Right now, I'm trying to figure out how I can enjoy my real life and internet life on runevillage without horrible clashing them. It's becoming a real strain trying to balance things out. If I spend too much real life I can't enjoy runevillage and talk to you all, and if I spend too much on runevillage, I can kill real life school grades. >.> My science teacher keeps confusing me even if I listen carefully (63 in class. I have an F. >_>) and I can't keep my goals focused long enough with so many distractions.

Any help to balance things?

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Thanks.

I've been having a fling with my best friend'ss ex girlfriend. Should I carry on?

Oh, I've never asked something like this on a forum, what fun.

Luvvles!

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ye go ahead.

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For the love of God, no. Not if you want to keep your best mate. You could ask your mate if he minds, and go gy what he says. But it will make things awkward.

Okay. So recently i have got myself fancied with a new girl. We've been going out for a month now <3. I treat her well, she treats me well. Our arguements and fights last like 15 minutes and they come maybe twice a month. Anyways theres this other guy who lately has been hitting on her, and doing his best trying to rip us apart. He plotted abit to make my girl and i argue, and i used all my will power to try and not knock out a few of his teeth. In stageband, he ALWAYS tries to sit beside her and hit on her, thank god for the koreans and the other girls.. And just today he gave her a note which said he likes her. Oh and before that on thanksgiving weekend, there was a camp thing i so elegantly didnt go to. He had sort of a cat fight with her, and to say sorry he like drew her a picture and wrote her a letter... I trust my girl but i sort of got out of a relationship with a...'not so elegant' girl. And so im quite paranoid.

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As a fellow relationship ripper expert, I can truthfully say that if you want him to stop, tell him that you know what's going on, and that you want him to stop immedately. Chances are, he thinks he's really smart because he knows that you have no idea what's going on--but if you tell him you know exactly what's going on, he'll be really freaked out and stop.

bartoron

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I'll see and wait for a day or two, if he makes a major move on her or like touches her then i will definatly step in. Though i dont want to use the line ' shes mine '. Though she said its perfectly fine if i say it, i just find it morally wrong to 'claim' a human being. Bah, morals.

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Dude, if he's trying to break you two up, he obviously doesn't give a about morals. GO FOR IT!

bartoron

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The guy is even trying to use pity tactics, like saying hes the same as her and trying to look sad.. -.-;

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Ok, it’s getting late, but I got the feeling that he is getting to her. Sounds like he is quite romantic and can make her laugh and while you are all tense and argumentative. If you still want to continue this relationship with her, better put some effort into it. But please don’t try any macho-jealous thing in the public, that is a sure way to lose her.

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The Kingdom of God is within you, not in buildings of wood and stone. - Gospel of Thomas

I try to talk about the issue with her but she just sort of brings up something like ' you dont trust me ? '. =\

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Yes, I know this situation well...

One of the first things you should do is talk to her about it. See what she thinks of him, not if she fancies him or not, just in general. If she says she doesn't like this atention, go talk to him. and make sure you say you trust her! Also talk to him. Tell him to back off, you don't have to say "she's mine". You could say something like "she already has a boyfriend, an that's me". If he tries to get all tough just fight back. He seems like the stupid type who most likely just wants to "get with her". I'm sure you know what I mean.

Hope that helps, feel free to ask for more advise.