New problem. This stupid little brat made this lie about me while I was talking to a friend today, and I yelled at her, which she wanted that, so she pretends to cry and her grandma (the bus driver) yells at me and everything. I can't believe this stupid, little idiot did this. Also, these stupid preps threatened to tattle on me for something I did not do if I get near. I just want to cause a shooting for freaking sake! I need to get help on this. I am going to shoot that little punk.

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there are easyer ways how to kill someone like for instance killing his name if you can prove its a lie everyones gonna hate that little punk and u then have every right to beat him up.

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They like her because she sucks up, and her grandma (who should not drive) lets her off and believes the jerk. >:( I hope she gets a heart attack and dies.

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If you really want to toy with them you call always take a picture of them and post it online if you know what i mean(a kid in my class did this with a few kids and well he's good at photoshp so people would hide from him).

Or what i did...well i never had that problem but, the last time someone tried to be a jeck and teased me, I kicked his head although i felt a bit guilty albeit he never bothered me again.

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kitty important point you made... it works for her guess what its not that easy for guys.

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right so perfect, you got her where you want her. at the moment she thinks shes "invincible" too you. talk too her grandma when shes not there and ask her too listen too the whole of the conversation also... you could get a voice recorder there always good too have got me away with something. teacher shouted adn swore at me i recorded it and told head teacher...byebye teacher good luck

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lif u do it in germany people can sue u not sure about usa

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I have a bit of a problem... Well, not a problem, more like a dilemma.

Well me and this girl are good friends, well, at least I think we are. Everything has been going along fine for a few months (as friends) until about a week ago.

Lately she's been getting kinda too close to me to be a friend, especially when she's had a few to drink, but even when she's complately sober. For example today I was sitting down watching my mates play sport. She came down and sat beside me, held my hand an started rubbing up against my neck.

Now don't take this the wrong way, if there wasn't history between us as friends I wouldn't have a problem with all this. But a month or so ago she told me that she thought of me as her brother, and now she's doing this...

She hasn't told me that she wants us to be closer, but she seems to be giving off signals that she does.

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By the way, she just added me on "Bebo" (an online friends network thing) and described me as her "Other Half". Now I actually think that she might think that we're a couple...

Help me.

Thanks to everyone that expresses a view, no matter how small.

lol i like helping people in situations with girls my friend calls me a "white hitch"
well first of all you need too ask yourself do you like her more as a friend.
if so then ask her straight"do you think we could be more than friends" and theres your answer
or ask her she has any interest in you and if yes say something like "if we were too do anything like go out, and then split up we would ruin this great friendship we have". hope that helps

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If you want her ask her out if she says no say you were just testing cuz she was getting kinda close.

If you dont want her just ask her: Hey whats this all about i thought you see me more like a brother.

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Thanks guys, I guess I'll just go with what I think I should do in the spur of the moment.

She likes you mate. Really likes you it sounds like. The fact is, girls will never, ever ask a guy out. Fact. If you like her in that way too, ask her out. If not, talk to her about it. If you don't like this atention, ask her to stop. Chances are she won't like it, and things may get awkward no matter1 what path you choose.

There's not really much else to be said on the subject to be honest, not unless you give us some more details. Or, if you don't want to post them in front of everyone you can pm me in complete confidence, i'm a trustworthy guy and I know a thing or two about how the female mind works andI can read situations like this very well.

Well, she asked me to go around to her place after school today. I'll tell you if anything else important happens, lol.

k so.

i've been going out with this girl since tuesday. great right? we were close friends and liked each other so i asked her out.

well now i'm already starting to feel like we're better off as friends. thing is, i dont want to break up with her and regret it, i dont want to break her heart at all, and i might go to her house tomarrow...i really wish it wasnt like this .......

sTEVE....

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steve stay together with her for a while if you still dont feel anymore attracted to her after a week you just as well break up and tell her you´re really sorry and that you just wanna be friends.

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...really im not sure if i feel that way now...i think i just had this weird moment of stupidity. thanks though.

sTEVE!

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steve well no offence but you called the competly wrong card on this one. if you were already good friends you shouldnt of risked the friendship so ask her now too be honest and say do you think we were better of as friends.

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Ok steve... as no one is ofering any clear advise here, i'll help you out. The best thing to do is have a long, hard think about your situation. Think about if you will continue being good friends as well as being together, or if you will slowly drift apart. If you choose to stay with her, you don't really need to do much to be honest. If not, tell her you need to talk to her. Tell her you are very sorry, but you don't think things will work out and it will most likely result in you breaking up and never talking again. Say it is better to end it now, sooner rather than later. You can still stay friends when you break up, i'm really good friend with my ex. Let me know if you need any more advise.

I'm in need of some advice here.

I really don't know who I can trust of my real friends, so I'd rather ask on the Internet, where it's a very low chance that anybody related to this, or know anybody I'm talking about, is going to turn up.

For quite a while, I fancied a girl called Jo, and then found out she already had a boyfriend, who happened to be one of my best friends. So I just left it, and after a while started going out with a girl called Heather, and everything was fine.

After almost a year of Jo and Dan going out, Dan left her for some other girl, and now a lot of people hate him for it, Jo was really really depressed and stuff. Because I considered her as one of my closest friends, I felt I should try and cheer her up, instead of bitching about how much of an idiot Dan is, and how he should die, and whatever other crap people were saying about him.

After a while, I broke up with Heather because we rarely saw each other apart from at school, and stuff like that. At the time, I was still helping Jo with her problems, and I was feeling pretty bad too. I kinda refused to talk to Heather for a while for a couple of reasons, though she still wanted to be friends.

I soon became attached to Jo again, and after a while, I told her I liked her and such, and she said something that was a mix of "I like you, but I don't like you", so I was really confused. I was constantly flirting with her, and she knew how much I felt for her and all that...

Few days ago, she had to go back to her school to do a prefect duty, and she asked me to walk with her to the gates. We had a little talk and she was saying things how she's only just really becoming comfortable with being single, and was saying things like you're a really sweet guy, but I don't want to start anything, and all that. I was fine with it, I understood what and why she was saying it.

It was really weird for me, but 2 or 3 days after that, my feelings for her just suddenly disappeared. If I sit there and search myself deep enough, i find them, but they've just buried themselves from the surface.

The weirder thing for me was, before any of this, I kinda had a thing for another girl called Kay... That was only a small thing and it wore off, but as soon as my feelings for Jo seemed to bury themselves, I had this thing for Kay come back. I don't know where it came from, but they just seemed to take over.

Yesterday, I thought that I might as well tell her that I think I like her, and all that, instead of wasting time always thinking about her, and then finding after a few months that she's not interested at all and that I've just wasted all my time. So I told her, and she didn't take me seriously. At all. Not the slightest. She acted as if I'd just been dared by some random guy to tell her I like her. After that, she just started talking about something else.

I felt a bit bad after that, and then this morning, I checked my LiveJournal to see if I had any comments. I checked my friends page to see if anyone had written anything worth reading since I last checked, and found an entry by Jo. It started off with a message to "someone", saying how much she wants to be there for them, how much she loves them and would do anything for them, and all they have to do was accept it. But hang on. The other day she told me she was just becoming comfortable with being single and didn't want to start anything with anyone. So if I've read that in the right way, she's lied to me.

I would have been happy if she had just been honest with me, instead of lying to me about it. I'm probably not going to know for a while if it's what she meant by it, as I'm probably not going to talk to her for a while. We go to different schools, she's not on MSN that much, she never has any credit on her phone, and I doubt I'd have the strength to talk to her about it anyway.

Another thing is, a couple of things I asked her to just keep between us, and it turns out that Kay and Ben (Some guy unrelated to most of this) already knew a lot about it. If you were to ever meet Jo, you would never think she was the type of person to go talking about things like that, especially if you've asked to keep it between the two of you.

Then we've got Heather again. I refused to talk to her a while ago because I was having a hard time getting over us breaking up, and I kept saying the wrong things and all that so I thought it best that I just don't talk to her at all. Now that I'm over it and all that, she's the one refusing to talk to me. I spoke to Elaine, one of her closest friends, and she said she hasn't a clue why. This was the other subject that Kay went into, and she claimed that because of the mood I was in at the time, Heather doesn't know what mood I'm in now, so she wants to wait until it's gone and she knows it's safe to talk to me again. Thing is, I try to talk to her. I talk to people around her all the time. I talk to people when she's around. She knows how I am now. She knows I've gotten over it. I don't know, and nobody else seems to know, why she refuses to talk to me now.

I just really don't know what to do. From what I can see, Jo has lied to me. Kay doesn't take me seriously. Heather refuses to talk to me. These 3 people, are of the 5 people who I care the most about. I just don't feel I can trust them any more, and if you can't trust those who you care about the most, who can you trust?

I just don't know what to do.

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Ok... Strat, you're completely all over the place. I'm a bit slow today, so which one do you still like?

If it's Jo you like, you will have to contact her somehow and just talk to her about it. Ask her if she does like you, and if she does why did she say the things she said. the truth is, girls have a funny way of telling you things like this. it is very rare for a girl to just say "I like you" before you say anything first, they al lseem to think guys should make the first move.

If Kay doesn't take you seriously when you talk to her, say something like you are being serious, i'm not sure what to say exactly but just be very true and promise her you are not lying or joking or whatever. That should solve that problem.

As for Heather... no matter how much you care about someone, if they won't talk to you it is not worth the effort. I have been in this situation before, and I know how hard it is. It will take time for you to accept this, it took me a while too. try and talk to her a few times, just leave a bit of time between them.

Sorry i'm not being too specific, I myself have a couple of problems at the moment and i'm very tired. But like I always say, if you ever want a chat about anything you can just let me know in this topic or by pm. And don't worry, you can trust me, I know how it feels if someone spreads stuff you tell them in confidence and I would never want to do that to aynone.