Statistics: Posted by Snake1235 — July 15th, 2008, 12:58 pm
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You have made a huge drama with this post, a drama that need not have happened when you obviously had no intention of leaving. You have been here just about a week and I think there has been more drama centered around you in that short time than most other forum users have had in their time here. You have to understand that some things on the internet are said in jest, they aren't meant to cause harm, but you over-react on everything that happens to you.
You say you had trouble in both the chat and the rv lounge, these are completely different groups of people, most of the regulars in chat don't visit the lounge, when the same problem happens in two areas and the only thing linking them is yourself then I think you need to reconsider who you are blaming. Yes sometimes we don't like new users, but there are often reasons for that, many other new users we have welcomed warmly, you can ask any of the others you see in lumbridge lounge.
What you will find with rv is if you give them something, they will bite, if you continue to give them things they will continue to bite, its not right I agree, but its what happens. I know a number of users have explained to you why your behaviour is getting these reactions but you don't seem willing to adjust it, it takes both parties inputting to have an arguement.
By the way, I heard you are interested in becoming a moderator, this is the correct procedure: http://www.runevillage.com/ThePub/viewt ... 2&t=123083 asking existing moderators to go out with you isn't the way to do it.
I believe my gut instinct was right about you.
Statistics: Posted by Sarah — July 15th, 2008, 12:32 pm
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Don't leave, there's are lots of nice people here. Right guys? *smack*
No, really, don't leave. Just because someone offends you or anything doesn't mean you're not wanted by the whole place
I'm not really sure what really happened here, if anyone could fill me in perhaps?Statistics: Posted by Rabadzija — July 15th, 2008, 12:03 pm
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When I know you probably mean i'm still here and haven't left...
- Also - A mod please lock this topic if they think its appropriate. I'm going to be here for the people who are honestly my friends, I made this topic when I was really upset and didn't know if I should stay or not..
But i may probably be banned for saying stuff about what I feel like and how SOME have treated me. But also I want to tell to those who think new people are rule breakers which is stereotyping, NOT every new person is a bad person or rule breaks. Also its now just people being sarcastic and funny on this topic..and don't mean it..but i must say some people really did make me feel better.
BUT in the mean time is this how you guys treat your new people???? I'm seriously sad to see this.
IF SO..then why is this even a forum for everyone??? That makes no sense, since i've been here 8 days now maybe more maybe less..and from what i've seen..some of you must not with new people.
It'd be like me saying "I bet thats why you all hardly get new people, and thats why they leave"
Kind of like saying "I bet most of the new people are rule breakers who will get banned or leave.."
Seriously common and to those who are talking behind my backs in the chat, and say they that they don't, I don't care if you guys say nice things ok? But I do care if its something I don't want to hear about to my face..
Yes this is the internet but people should still be nice to those who are new to places like forums, sites, ect or at least try to make an effort to be nice to anyone, people who are and have been on a long time.
You all have been here a very long time, and probably those who were new have joined in the past gave you all trouble but like I said its not everybody..and seeing that i'm a new person who is talking for myself and hearing that since i'm new I shouldn't have a picture up, that also tells me new people shouldn't have rights and saying a new person can't make friends in a day or 2, or saying a new person is going get banned or in (my case want to leave), But its wrong I met some really nice people here who are on my side about this and then there are some who say to stay away from me i'm evil and i'm bad person and think everyone is attacking me and i'm an attention seeker..
I'm not any of those..you just haven't gave me chance, after all you say i'm a new person (yes i'm a new person) but i meant like you say new people are like this, or shouldn't get to do that..
But guys..you got to realize you all were probably new to something too, weren't you?
And to be honest i'm glad people have my back when they tell me there, there for me. Also.. If I get banned for saying this to people like Frem who are trying to make me mad, by putting a video up that is saying "you'll be back soon, seeing you have not left yet" Not very nice. and probably wants me to go now.. which makes sense why she probably put that..Its kinda sad when a new person is treated like this or is afraid to even LOG IN when knowing they will somehow or someway get something heard about them or have comments like that. And i'm yet to see other new people who have been ran out as i have..
Once again.. i'm speaking for myself..since alot of others seem to think they can talk about me too..
And if i am banned for starting anything I understand, but i just want people to know new people should have the same rights as anyone else and for everyone to stop being like this to eachother and expecially to me..since i did hear theres people here who are treated worse. And telling those who don't like me because I used poor grammar meaning "caps" or anyother reason.
-Katey
Statistics: Posted by Katey — July 15th, 2008, 11:59 am
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Have fun in life and ignore the losers.
Statistics: Posted by Flying Sno — July 15th, 2008, 8:02 am
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AND IN THE EARLY MORNING LIGHT, AFTER A SILENT, PEACEFUL NIGHT. YOU TOOK MY HEART AWAYYY, OH I WISH YOU COULD HAVE STAYED
Statistics: Posted by Mord — July 15th, 2008, 7:47 am
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But i guess wherever you go, i hope you have fun... wish you coulda stayed at rv but i guess things didnt work out so well....
gona miss you and your sense of joy... peace
At Everyone: why do people beat up on the new kid?
(im not new to rv, but i dont post much.. sort of a lurker if you will no flamey~~~)
Statistics: Posted by Madvillan — July 14th, 2008, 8:29 pm
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BUT. This is runevillage. You are a female. You are a minority here. It is a runescape based forum; therefore some people will act like immature little children. Heck, a great majority of people on the village are quite young. When I first came to the forum I was 12 and started playing the game I was... 10. (This was before the 13 years rule but I'm banned now, who cares
?) A lot of the people said things that really made me feel.. well... less of a person. In specific, guys would pressure me to show them how I look like in real life. Others, they wouldn't even believe that I was a girl, or just assume that I was an "ugly fat nerd." All you need to do is ignore it. Sure its easier said then done, and it will take some getting used to. Just try and be genuinely friendly, rather than try and be friends with everyone (like... that sounds really confusing. It sounds like it makes sense in my head but it probably doesn't for you) . Keep in mind, you have no reason to defend yourself, or prove anything. Just be yourself 
Statistics: Posted by dimak1 — July 14th, 2008, 8:13 pm
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Wait, what the hell is going on? o__O
That's what I Thought O__o. And as for people thinking I flamed her in RV lounge, for once..I didn't >_> Never seen her in the chat.
Well sad to see you go despite me never seeing you post.
Statistics: Posted by Simons Pure — July 14th, 2008, 8:07 pm
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Cya.
Statistics: Posted by Muscular Ape — July 14th, 2008, 8:04 pm
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As people have said, this IS the internet and you're gonna find people who judge at the drop of a hat and you seem like a nice enough girl you just need to realise there are people like that and ignore it.
Trust me, for the people who are nice enough to keep you here... they'll make you decide that it's a nice place to be, albeit not what it was but still a place for people to come and just talk to other people like themselves. A week is definitely not long enough, stay for a bit longer and then make your decision but trust me... give it a chance, open your head and heart and just accept that there are people who can say anything but just use it as an excuse to make yourself a better person and ignore it.
If you need to talk, drop me a pm.. I'll try and explain anything you need best I can or whatnot...
Cheers and Happy Villaging! ^.^
Statistics: Posted by Hellfire — July 14th, 2008, 7:45 pm
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Wait, what the hell is going on? o__O
I don't want to sound harsh or anything, but I agree with ^...
Statistics: Posted by ZxC — July 14th, 2008, 6:18 pm
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That hasn't changed, so I'm going to give you some advice: This is internet, and you're on a forum. People are jerks; get used to it.
Statistics: Posted by Eadwulf — July 14th, 2008, 5:41 pm
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Does this mean welcome back?
Statistics: Posted by Kanye West — July 14th, 2008, 3:06 pm
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I met people good and bad and they all gave me the strength both ways by keeping on and by learning.. If I didn't care so much about you all I would have been gone by now. But i'm here telling you all thank you for the comments, and that I don't want to leave but then something is telling me I should. So i'm confused at the moment, but for now i'm leaving. Untill things settle down...
As far as your comment Louis, if you are not one to judge people, then why did you just judge me? For one, It was my Ex bfs car and when me and him went on a date he wanted a picture of me on his car.. My family could never afford anything like that. We can hardly pay off our bills and gas from the prices going up. Believe it or not. I wasn't even trying to get attention if fact, when I said "i tried to make friends" I meant I was 'wanting' to have friends on here not literally TRYING just a Figure of speech. Just some people thought I was an attention seeker which I don't exactly know how I tried to get attention but that will remain confidential.
And I just want to add when I first came here I was told about my grammar, I can see it can be annoying BUT that shouldn't be the reason to get annoyed of me, alot of people have poor grammar probably worse then I do, but I never thought grammar was such an issue that it made people mad at me as I said i'm new here to RV. I stopped. And here I am using my best grammar..
But my point is, for those of you who saw badly in me..try to look at the good things about a person. When I came here most people in the chat made me feel insecure about my grammar about my body and about my lack of confidence in people and myself. So if I annoyed anybody by asking them if they hated me it was because I have been through alot as the 7 days went by and i'm sorry. Weither you guys want to acknowledge the fact or not.
The reason i'm still here as I mentioned before is because most of you guys are awesome, i'm starting to realize that the people on here that were kind to me and really did mean what said made me feel like I was really liked and wanted. And some just want me to leave perm. But, seeing that just random people saying things like that to me is hurtful..and saying i'm trying to get a rid of veterans on here makes me feel like crap, literally! And your probably thinking heh..shes probably feeling like crap because she knows she trying too. No..I personally have met and have friends who are vets on RV and they are the coolest cats I have ever met on a forum site. Yes, i'm new to forums in general..well sort of if RuneScape counts, but I guess you all get the picture. Thanks for listening and taking your time to read this.
~katey
Statistics: Posted by Katey — July 14th, 2008, 2:24 pm
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I looked at that picture, you're a young white girl with an expensive car that your daddy probably bought you living in a nice neighbourhood. Hard life, homie, hard life.
That's her ex-boyfriend's car.
Gg.
Anywho, see you around Katey. Good luck and have fun with whatever you do.
Statistics: Posted by Ad — July 14th, 2008, 1:14 pm
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What can I say? I'm sorry that the shallowest (and actually least popular) people here decided to give you a hard time which has lead to you wanting to leave. Shame, but I wish you all the best. x
Statistics: Posted by Halley92 — July 14th, 2008, 1:11 pm
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